Tuesday, December 31, 2013

2013 highlights


2013~ What a year full of changes! 
So many milestones: graduating with my Masters Degree from Florida Institute of Technology, rocking out at the first Tortuga Music Festival & driving to Key West, swearing-in as a Peace Corps Volunteer, moving to Africa... 
So many memories: going to my cousin's high school graduation, driving to Birmingham with my parents to visit family & friends, participating in a manatee workshop at MOTE Marine Lab, watching fireworks from the top of Stone Mountain, assisting with a sea turtle release, attending a childhood friend's wedding, chopping off my hair...


Looking forward to 2014! Happy New Year :-]

Monday, December 30, 2013

Grandparents



Paw-Paw
Humble prayers of thanksgiving, the calming effect of listening to the front door wind chime or looking for birds, the wisdom of “measuring twice and cutting once”, the importance of family, personifying how giving truly is better than receiving, and being bold in one’s faith.   

Maw-Maw
Hospitality goes a long way, the prudence of “better safe than sorry”, how Christmas is every day {and not just because the tree is still up}, the joy of a favorite meal shared with family, clever craftiness, and balancing seriousness with silliness.      

You both opened the world to me: my first plane ride to Washington D.C., blackberry picking and planting a garden, attending countless shows at The Fox Theatre, helping me purchase my first car.

These words do not do justice for how much I love and appreciate you!
Happiest of Birthdays! 

Fula Scars

I want to commemorate this life experience but tattoos are not my cup of tea. 
Scars have a more fascinating, hidden story and capture a more candid memory. 
I love my American names and what they each mean: 
Melissa {Greek for Honeybee} Quinn {Five} Daniel {Hebrew for God is my Judge}
"As God is my Judge, I am the fifth honeybee" 
MQD 
Margaret Awa Willan Samba Bah is my full Gambian name and I love it as well. 
This design of five marks encompasses all of my names.






I, God, will never forget you. Look here. I have made you a part of Me, graven you on the palms of my hands. Your city walls are always on my mind, always my concern. 
Isaiah 49:15-16

Wednesday, December 25, 2013

Christmas in Kombo: Christmas Cards






       My Peace Corps cohort, Team ExTreme, and I have been in Kombo for our InService Training (IST) which conveniently fell close to the Christmas holiday.  I knew I loved Christmastime but I didn’t realize just how much until we started talking about our favorite traditions.  One PCV said, “I like putting up Christmas lights with my dad…mainly I just love to hear him complain about it the whole time”.  Likewise, I love signing Christmas cards with my family for many reasons but mainly I enjoy hearing my brother complain about it the whole time.  Deep down I think he enjoys himself.  My mom made a photo Christmas card so there will be no signatures this year {you’re welcome, Bubbie}. 

            
Musa’s class was the last to come to the library before I left for IST.  Instead of checking-out books, I shared a few of my favorite Christmas activities: reading about the birth of Christ, singing Christmas carols, and making Christmas cards!  The joy on their faces was priceless as they sang “We Wish You a Merry Christmas” and colored pictures of Christmas trees, nativities, and shepherds.  The students were gracious enough to let me have their Christmas cards in order to give them to fellow Peace Corps Volunteers.



Christmas in Kombo: Secret Santa

I cannot keep a secret…at all.  The only exception is Christmas secrets. With those I am super stealth {or at least try to be, anyways}.  When Team ExTreme decided to have a Secret Santa to celebrate our first Christmas together, I was beyond excited.  Scavenger hunts, piƱatas, coupons for pest removal, gift baskets full of favorite snacks, poems, spontaneously performed raps, were some of the gifts given. Oh, and a chicken! Yes, someone received a live chicken {complete with a bow} as a present!! 


I hit the Secret Santa jackpot and received Cat, our Peace Corps Volunteer Leader {aka Mama Hen, best friend extraordinaire, dilemma dissolver, newsboy, supreme giver of hugs, an overall amazing person that I strive to be like}.  Cat is COSing (Close of Service) at the end of January so I wanted to incorporate a proper “see yah later, thanks for everything” tribute to her.  Along with pictures and captions of lessons she has taught us I had each member of Team Extreme give a personal shout out.  My gift wasn’t quite a complete secret but the finished project was an overall success and Cat was surprised! 


Brie, giver of South Dakota strong hugs and member of Team Woo, was my Secret Santa. For my gift she rewrote The Night Before Christmas set in the Gambia and read it out loud in between one of our IST sessions.









Friday, December 20, 2013

Meet Musa


Musa is the teacher I look forward to working with the most. He greets me each morning with a warm smile and kind words.  I appreciate how welcome he makes me feel and his willingness to work with me in organizing and maintaining the library. 

Upon discovering the library had one of my favorite books, If You Take a Mouse to School, I could not wait to read it with Musa.  He enjoyed it so much that he read it to his students that same day~ I was thrilled!  I am thankful for the friend I have found in this fellow teacher.  I am thankful for him teaching me Wolof in a way that I understand and enjoy.  I am thankful that he makes the bad days better and the good days even greater.

Happy Birthday, Musa!!

Monday, December 2, 2013

Commitment

Commitment is what transforms a promise into reality.
It is the words that speak boldly of your intentions and the actions that speak louder than words.
It is making the time when there is none.
Coming through time after time after time, year after year after year.
Commitment is the stuff character is made of; the power to change the face of things.
It is the daily triumph of integrity over skepticism.


I’m not going to lie, most days I want to quit, pack my bags, and go home.  When my poop is anything but solid, when my language skills are nonexistent, when my headmaster and I butt heads…a plane ride to America seems irresistible.

But I do not quit. I push aside my pride and I persevere.

I call Bonnie, my dear friend just 5 km away in Farafenni, and talk it out with her and Jesus. I go outside and sit with my family under the mango tree while I make more flashcards and let Samba’s sweet smile melt my heart. I look up from my pit latrine and take in all those glorious stars.  I remember my students’ joyful faces as they checked out books from the school library for the first time.  I replay lunchtime conversations filled with laughter between my teachers. 

Most of all, I remember the inquisitive eight year old who dreamed of Africa and the starry-eyed idealistic eighteen year old who after hearing about the Peace Corps decided then and there she would pursue it one day.  I am now the twenty-eight year old Peace Corps Volunteer serving in The Gambia, West Africa. 

This dream is a reality, a reality that is dreadful.  Sometimes.  Yet still totally worth it. 

Wacky Wolof Words


Learning Wolof has been both fun and frustrating.  Communicating effectively and cutting up with people in my village and market have become sources of humor, pride, and confidence for me.  These words caught my eye while studying. The italicized words are in Wolof.
  
Some are ironic:
Be content = Beg
Be quiet = Mukus… I’m anything but quiet when blowing my nose
Bought, give thanks, & last name = Santa
Corpse = Niiw (pronounced “new”)
Cow = Nag
Have to = War
Iguana = Bar… Popular restaurant in Saint Simon’s Island, Georgia.
In a bad mood = Say… This song comes to mind.
Businesslike = TĆ«stĆ«s… Umm, ovaries are just as fierce in the workplace.
Think = Fog

Some make sense:
Be fussy = Sob
Be lucky = Jig
Busy = Xat (pronounced “hat”)
Carpet = Tape
Start = Door
Tooth = Bon (pronounced “bone”)

Some are easy to remember:
Belly = Koola (pronounced “cola”)… My treatment for tummy aches.
Bedroom = Kabinet… My family often uses cabinet drawers as makeshift baby beds. 
Can = Pot… Synonyms for toilet in my family.
Cloth = Piis (pronounced “piss”)… My little siblings often pee on me when I hold them.
Garden = Tool… There so many tools to use in a garden.
Small = Sew… Sums up my skills in this area.

Some are just funny:
Axe = SĆ©meƱ… Could this lead to an advertisement change?
Blind = Gumbo
Breast = Ween (pronounced “when”)… Things get awkward when talking in English, oops!
Cat & wise = Muus (pronounced “moose”)
Defecate, pool, lie, & whisper = Day
Laundry = PĆ³ot (pronounced “poot”)
Month & moon = Weer (pronounced “where”)
Slice = Dog… Will have to try this one out at Pizza Hut!
To do laundry = FĆ³ot (pronounced “foot”) 

Thursday, November 21, 2013

PreService Training Highlights


I hope you enjoy these glimpses into my life in The Gambia!

Thursday, October 31, 2013

The ABC's of Months 1-2-3 (& 4)


Apple juice and airplanes are the comforts of home that I miss most. A gallon of apple juice would barely last me a week. These days I have to wait until I’m in Kombo to buy a litre for 55 Dalasi (~$1.50) and it is definitely a celebration. Growing up near Hartsfield Jackson International Airport, the busiest airport in the world, I am used to seeing at least fifty airplanes within any given hour. In The Gambia, I’m lucky if I see two airplanes in one week!  

Books read so far include: Reason for Hope (Jane Goodall), Thinking in Pictures (Temple Grandin), First Comes Love, Then Comes Malaria (Eve Brown-Waite), Joni (Katherine Monk), Mango Elephants in the Sun (Susana Herrera), Madame Doubtfire (Anne Fine), Small Wonders (Barbara Kingsolver), An Hour Before Daylight (Jimmy Carter), These Strange Ashes (Elisabeth Elliott). I am also reading through the book of Acts with some of my fellow Christian PCVs.

Calling the Dawgs” and other University of Georgia football cheers has been my most memorable Goal Two teaching moments with my host family.

Donkey cart is definitely my favorite mode of transportation in The Gambia~ great breezes, not crowded, steady, and slow enough to take in the scenery.

Eating lots of bread, rice, noodles, chicken, fish, potatoes, okra, seasonal fruit, and black-eyed peas…with only my hands of course!  Many Gambians I’ve shared a meal with have jokingly spelled out s-p-o-o-n with each of their fingers.

“Fetcha” or dancing happens all the time, which I love! Thankfully, my “moving like a jellyfish” is seen as hilarious and somewhat close to the native dancing. 


Giggles, giggles, giggles! I just love hearing Gambians giggle! I am currently working on compiling a video of all my favorite gigglers :-] They truly love to laugh and it is becoming more apparent why The Gambia is referred to as “The Smiling Coast of Africa.”

Hippopotamus (7!) were spotted during our boat cruise while upcountry in Janjanbureh.


Islam is the main religion of The Gambia. Unfortunately, many Americans view Islam negatively. As a Christian, I would not want to be characterized or defined by the Ku Klux Klan; Why should Muslims be characterized or defined by Al Queda or other terrorist groups? The five calls to prayer, the modest dress code, fasting during Ramadan, and extensive charity for example could be seen as obligatory but I find the devotion and inner peace of my Muslim friends as a challenge to my own faith and how poorly I live it out. 
    
Jangalakat ti jangalakat la” or “teacher of teachers” in Wolof is my main mission these next two years. I will be working at a lower basic school (kindergarten through grade six) alongside of the teachers assisting them with literacy education, expanding enrollment, planting trees, and gardening.  During my first month I have been focused on getting to know and connect with my teachers as well as organizing the school library. Cataloging the books and arranging them according to the Dewey Decimal System has been quite fun…I am definitely the daughter of a librarian!! Hopefully, students will soon be able to check out books!


Killing flies, spiders, and termites keeps me busy.  The circle of life is fascinating…before I can sweep away the corpse of whatever insect I just killed the ants have already assemble and carry it away to feast upon.

Lost over 30 pounds so far! Granted, I have had a drastic change in diet, I am always active, and the heat has me constantly sweating! I just cannot get over the comparison of these two pictures! The one on the left is from my driver’s license taken a week before I left and the one on the right is the most current picture of me.

Maka Farafenni, located 105km inland on the northern bank of The Gambia, will be my permanent site for the next two years. Farafenni (5km away) is the closest city and the Senegal border is just 3 km to the North.

Night sky is indescribable…virtually zero light pollution.  Imagine a black sheet of construction paper with a whole jar of silver glitter spilt on it and that is my view.  I see at least three shooting stars during supper and my bucket bath. 

Optimism is the key to keeping sane while living a day-by-day life of service in the Peace Corps. Even in the most trying of times I must find something positive to focus my attention. Unidentifiable food served during dinner? At least I didn’t have to cook and won’t have to clean the dishes. Nonstop diarrhea? Thankfully I have enough toilet paper. Cell phone battery is dead again and electricity is a 5km bike ride away? At least I’ll get to drink a Coke and sit in air conditioning while it charges.

Professional & proud pit latrine user right here! “Popping a squat” definitely took some getting use to but now it is quite comfortable and not a big deal. Still using toilet paper…

Quilt project is in the works using all of the scrap fabric from my outfits.  My father is a nawkat {tailor} and I look forward to having him fashion many outfits for me, and my family & friends back home. Be on the lookout for me showing off a sweet UGA assobee!! 


Rainy season is here bringing plenty of time to relax and rest during the nonstop rain.  Enjoy the weather forecast my language group and I made!

Scrabble matches are a plenty including Scrabble boardgames…nine (in one form or another) are currently in my possession. I am contemplating how to convert the tile distribution to include Wolof specific characters. Slowly but surely, my younger sister and her friends are learning how to play.  Some of my teachers that I play with sure do give me a run for my money!

Trees here are wonderful! Cashew, mango, avocado, palm, eucalyptus and Baobabs are everywhere! Sitting under their shade while drinking attaya and chatting is a frequently enjoyed pastime.

Umbilical cords are everywhere…My host sister recently gave birth to a baby boy, the family horse delivered a filly the day before I arrived, and four of the goats have had babies as well.  I left the States with at least fourteen friends expecting a child~ six of which have been born so far. So many babies!!

Viewing futbol (whether it’s just the neighborhood guys or professional leagues on television) is becoming one of my favorite pastimes! Still trying to decide on a team…any suggestions?!


Wolof is the language I’ve been learning~ challenging yet fun!  Want to learn it with me?  Check out Wolof and other languages using this amazing resource.

X-rays taken during med-evac in Dakar revealed heel spurs on both of my feet that will eventually have to be surgically removed within the next two years.

“Yumba” is Wolof for honeybee and it has quickly become my Gambian nickname. Names are a big deal in The Gambia as they automatically inform others on where one comes from, which people group one belongs to, and what language one speaks.

Zero turtles (of any kind) have been spotted thus far. I am still doing my research and networking hope to contribute eventually 

Sunday, September 15, 2013

Seven Month Catch Up ;-]

April 23rd: Last day at EGHS with my AVID Family
May 4th: Graduate from Florida Tech with a Masters of Science in Environmental Education
May 15th: Attended the Lilian Carter Award Ceremony in Atlanta with my great aunt Alberta & meet several incredible Returned Peace Corps Volunteers




June 24th: Attend Staging in Philadelphia and meet seventeen new best friends
June 25th: Leave Newark, New Jersey for a layover in Brussels, Belgium and then on to Africa!
June 26th: Arrive in The Gambia, West Africa!!!


July 3rd: Move to training village (Meriama Kunda) and meet my host family 
July 4th: Attend naming ceremony and Gambian cultural show
July 10th-14th: Medically evacuated to Dakar, Senegal



July 16th: Found out permanent site (Maka Farafenni) & chopped off all my hair
July 21st: Shadow a Gambian Day~ I planted corn with Reyes, a teacher trainee

July 29th-August 1st: Teach 6th grade science (the 7 classes of animals) during "model school"






August 19th-24th: Attended supervisor's workshop, visit permanent site & meet my new host family


September 13th: Officially swear-in as a Peace Corps Volunteer!!!

Thursday, March 7, 2013

MQD: Future Peace Corps Volunteer!

Here is how it all happened:


September 26, 2012: Peace Corps application submitted


October 10, 2012: Initial interview at University of Central Florida



October 31, 2012: Follow-up interview

November 5, 2012: Nomination to serve received 
(Sector: Education, Tentative Departure Month: May)

January 18, 2013: Invitation to serve received 
(Country: The Gambia, Program: Education, Job Title: Primary Teacher Trainer, Staging: June 26, 2013) 




January 28, 2013: Invitation to serve officially accepted

January 31, 2013: The infamous "Big Blue Packet" received



February 23, 2013: Met my first Gambian and fellow Grad Student during the Florida Tech International Festival


Stayed tuned as this life-long dream comes true!!!

Thursday, February 21, 2013

New Hero


Dear Mister Eric Goode: 

I thoroughly enjoyed your interview.  Thank you for all the good {no pun intended, I promise} that you are doing for this species!! 

Your friend & fellow turtle admirer, 
MQD 


"In the end we will conserve only what we love. We will love only what we understand. We will understand only what we are taught." 
~ Baba Dioum


Sunday, February 17, 2013

Sing to Him a New Song

I am thankful we sang this song at church today. I needed to hear it, sing it, proclaim it, confess it, cry it out and believe it... not just today but every day.
   
One Thing Remains

And on and on and on and on it goes

Your love never fails
It never gives up 
It never runs out on me

It's higher than the mountains that I face
It's stronger than the power of the grave
It's constant in the trial and the change
This one thing remains

And on and on and on and on it goes
It overwhelms and satisfies my soul
And I never, ever, have to be afraid
This one thing remains

Your love

In death, in life
I'm confident and covered by the power of Your great love
My debt is paid
There's nothing that can separate my heart from Your great love

Your love never fails 
It never gives up 
It never runs out on me

And on and on and on and on it goes

Friday, February 15, 2013

Hello there, 28!

My favorite time of day on my favorite day :-]


Thursday, February 14, 2013

Not much has changed...


Michelangelo TMNT ice cream cake in 1991 for my sixth birthday






Sea turtle cupcakes twenty-two years later

Monday, February 11, 2013